Columnist / Nobuhle virgie
Why marrying a single mother is the right thing to do
DID you know that the Ndebele name "imvana'' was originally a mocking name? When a man marries a woman who already has a child, the man's friends would mock him and say "wadonsa ugatsha lamahlamvu alo...Published: 28 Jul 2019 at 09:56hrs | 2 | by Nobuhle Virgie Ajiti
The perils of being a side-chic, gun totting wife walks in on me and her hubby
Years ago I was in a serious relationship with some guy who decided to go to the UK leaving me here in Jhb. I was so sad and lonely.Everyone around me ubenomuntu wakhe and I decided to look for someon...Published: 11 Oct 2017 at 21:38hrs | 6 | by Nobuhle Virgie
A chat with Auntie Noe - Does size really matter?
Yes of course size does really matter, most people would say! The sad truth however is that sexual organs, how we look, complexion are truly none of our choices, that having been said it becomes unfai...Published: 14 Jul 2016 at 18:27hrs | 13 | by Nobuhle Virgie
A chat with Auntie Noe - Relationship issues
Auntie Noe! I am a men aged 33years and my wife 30years, we are blessed with a baby girl, my problem is I need sex at list twice per week but my wife is against that, she is comfortable with once in t...Published: 11 Jul 2016 at 19:52hrs | 12 | by Nobuhle Virgie
A chat with Auntie Noe - Why would a man leave marriage?
Everyday you hear of men leaving their matrimonial homes, Well, there ARE always exceptions…but after having dealt with women in this situation way too many times, here are seven "common, normal rea...Published: 07 Jul 2016 at 14:24hrs | 9 | by Nobuhle Virgie
A chat with Auntie Noe - Sticking to one person is not natural
I have been in relationships and I have found out that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all, cheating isn't always a product of not...Published: 27 Jun 2016 at 17:18hrs | 6 | by Nobuhle Virgie
My first trip to South Africa as a boarder jumper
Before I came to SA I worked as an HIV/AIDS workshop facilitator for three N.G.O's Medecins Sans Frontiers (MSF), CWGH and Zimbabwe National Family Planning council.The Zim government always ...Published: 20 Dec 2015 at 16:13hrs | 4 | by Nobuhle Virgie
A chat with Auntie Noe - How to Make Your Husband Love You More and More In 2015
1. Discover his favorite pet name and call him by that. 2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family. 3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt. 4. Be silent...Published: 31 Dec 2014 at 04:38hrs | 4 | by Nobuhle Virgie
A chat with Auntie Noe - 11 things that mean more to men than 'I Love You'
Learn how to show a man you love him in ways he'll truly appreciate1. Your Undivided Attention"When the male brain sees you checking your i...Published: 18 Dec 2014 at 15:12hrs | 5 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Auntie Noe - 'I want to settle down but she wants a career first'
Auntie Noe: I am 23 years old, and am a teacher by profession. I am in love with a 19 year old girl. We love each other, we pay each other visits, and we do not h...Published: 30 Nov 2014 at 10:48hrs | 3 | by Nobuhle Virgie
A chat with Auntie Noe - 5 Signs You're Dating a Loser
1. She forms attachments fast A loser has very shallow emotions and connections with others. This type of woman will seem fantastic at first and will shower...Published: 30 Nov 2014 at 10:27hrs | 4 | by Nobuhle Virgie
What Men Expect From Women
Women are often perplexed in their efforts to figure out what men really need to be happy and contented. At the end of the day, Eve's daughters simply shake their heads, shrug their shoulders, and...Published: 12 Nov 2014 at 06:28hrs | 4 | by Nobuhle Virgie
A chat with Auntie Noe - How to Get Your Boyfriend Back
Do you still find yourself subconsciously picking up all the pieces of shattered memories and pulling through all the strings that could link you back with him?Whatever busted our cherishe...Published: 06 Nov 2014 at 07:07hrs | 10 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Wednesday chat with Auntie Noe - How to Get Your Girlfriend Back
You've been regretting it since the day you let her go. And you can't sleep another day without doing something about it. If you really love her, do not give up. Get on your feet and win your girlfr...Published: 29 Oct 2014 at 11:53hrs | 3 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Wednesday chat with Auntie Noe - Love and Jealousy
Love and Jealousy: Understanding the Emotional DynamicsJealousy has long been viewed as an emotion that safeguards love. There are people who belie...Published: 22 Oct 2014 at 08:09hrs | 4 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Wednesday chat with Auntie Noe - 5 fundamental steps to a fruitful marriage
1. WHY do you want to get married? Interrogate your reasons, your motive. Is it because you want to love and be loved long term? To raise a family? To raise...Published: 17 Sep 2014 at 06:40hrs | | by Nobuhle Virgie
Extra chat with Auntie Noe - Don't Facebook your problems, face them head-on
Some things are just not meant to be on Facebook. Regardless of how frustrated, angry or disappointed you are, don't shame yourself by parading your personal or family problems on public forums. ...Published: 28 Aug 2014 at 08:25hrs | 3 | by Nobuhle Virgie
WhatsApp Chat with Auntie Noe - 'Hubby not taking care of my needs'
5:57am, 18 Aug - +27 77 *** ****: Hie aunt noe thnk u so much fr ur page, mina ngilendoda engafuni ukuthi ngisebenze yet hez nt taking care of my nids hw do ...Published: 18 Aug 2014 at 13:02hrs | 7 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Extra chat with Auntie Noe - Signs of Immaturity in Marriage
Being a long weekend back home, by popular demand some have been asking for something for the weekend. Well let's talk about some immaturity we throw into our marriages.For Men...... ...Published: 11 Aug 2014 at 15:39hrs | 3 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Wednesday chat with Auntie Noe - How do you expect her to be still beautiful?
How do you expect your wife's boobs to be as firm as they were when you first met her.If your wife has grown weight and does not have that beautiful shape she had, its probably because of ...Published: 06 Aug 2014 at 12:36hrs | 5 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Wednesday chat with Auntie Noe - Some women are just liabilities in relationships
Some women are just liabilities in relationships, they never bring anything to assist their men. The man struggles alone day in and day out and all the woman does is take, take, take all the time. ...Published: 30 Jul 2014 at 08:21hrs | 13 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Wednesday chat with Auntie Noe - No man wants to marry a woman with tattooed boobs
Today I am feeling really low. I just want to go straight to bed. But before I do let me have a word with the ladies.Now good ladies I have just summoned you here at my bedside before I t...Published: 23 Jul 2014 at 12:02hrs | 7 | by Nobuhle Virgie
If men were faithful to their lovers like their football teams
If men were faithful to their Girlfriend/ Wife/ Spouse the same way they are faithful to their FOOTBALL TEAMS, the world would be a better place.Hear me out here. If foo...Published: 01 Feb 2014 at 13:55hrs | | by Nobuhle Virgie
Signs of immaturity marriage for Men
Nobuhle Virgie1) Rejecting food when there's an issue: one of the things I hold in high este...Published: 27 Jan 2014 at 20:16hrs | 1 | by Nobuhle Virgie
Adulterous affairs don't begin with sleeping together
Adulterous affairs don't begin with sleeping together; they begin with inappropriate friendships. Friendship and emotional attachments with people of the opposite sex can spell danger for...Published: 06 Nov 2013 at 04:24hrs | | by Nobuhle Virgie
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