Healing after the election

After any acrimonious election - and the election of 2018 will go down in history as one of the most tightly contested - there needs to be a time for the country to come together once again and heal. Healing is a normal, healthy part of any good relationship. And in order for our relationship with our government, politicians, and fellow citizens to heal, we need to remember the commonalities that bring us together.

Healing after an election may not be easy for everyone, and it may be especially difficult this election year. But we must heal in order to move forward and continue to grow our great nation.

Historically, Zimbabweans have always been fairly good at letting bygones be bygones and moving on. Zimbabwean forgave British sympathizers after the Liberation War, and we forgave again (our brothers) after the terrible devastation wrought by the Civil War. A presidential election, all things considered, should be much easier.

Many ordinary Zimbabweans find the election process - and government in general - frustrating, opaque, and uncaring of their needs and challenges. Elections give us a time to vent about our frustrations with the economy and government's seeming inability to "get things done."

Smart Zimbabweans know that government is there to perform the basic functions that help guarantee our access to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. It's not there to make sure we don't do dumb things, make bad choices, or are actually happy.

These same neighbors and citizens also know that the ability to effect real change in Zimbabwe lies not with a President (who has specific, limited powers), but with uniting toward fighting corruption. If Zimbabweans really wanted the change they seem to clamor for every election cycle, they'd spend more time voting out the various MPs and councillors who failed to bring about the change desired, Harare city being one good example.

Healing Begins at Home
If you've been on a different page than your spouse, partner, or kids during this election, it's best to make amends and heal these personal wounds first. Sometimes we say things we don't really mean in the heat of an argument. Such things may be said out of frustration or anger. It will be the time to apologize for such remarks and acknowledge that some elections can be more acrimonious and frustrating than others. But it is no excuse not to treat others with the same respect we all want and deserve.
Do you really want to sink a whole friendship - based upon years or even decades of shared experiences - over a single election? For most people, the answer is no. Reach out to friends who were on the other side and make amends there, too.

Healing Continues at Work & with Neighbors
Maybe you've had one of those yard signs on your front lawn that stood out among a sea of your opponent's signs. Maybe you're the one person in your office or on the job site who seemed to be for your candidate. It's time to say, "Hey, that was some election, but I'm glad it's over and we can all get on with our lives," and hope others hear your conciliatory tone.

Unless you went way over the top, there's no need to apologize for your choice of candidates or your passion in arguing for your candidate (as long as you were respectful when doing so). If you did go over the top or cross a line, you should try to find a quiet, private place to make your apologies to those you may have offended. Doing so will go a long way to healing any hurt feelings at your workplace.

Healing Must Occur in Government, Too
Zimbabweans are not electing politicians to sit in their chairs and make speeches that nobody listens to. We elect them to do their job of running this nation's business and getting the job done. Any politician who refuses to do his or her job - which includes rational discussion, negotiation, and compromise (as has always been the case) - needs to resign or face not being re-elected come next election. Citizens have said time and time again that they want a government that does its job - not one that just obstructs work from being accomplished.

Politicians must reach across the aisle and find the shared commonalities they have with one another - their pride in being Zimbabwean, their belief in the Zimbabwean work ethic, and the knowledge that together they can accomplish great things for our great country.

Here's to the next four years of coming together again as one people, standing behind our President and elected officials, and moving forward. Because it is only together that we can make simple work of hard, complicated issues