Woman complains that husband does not last long in sexual encounter

A LUSAKA man narrated before a local court how his wife complains that he does not satisfy her in bed.
The man said his wife further complained that he did not prolong his sexual acts, which had affected their sexual style because he does not make her reach orgasm.
This was in a case where July Simushi, 40, of Kanyama Township sued Juliet  Mulala of Makeni for divorce because he was tired of begging for sex from her.
Times of Zambia reported that facts before the court were that the two got married in 2003 and had two children, but dowry was not paid.
He said he used to get tired from work and managed to have sex with his wife in a short period on some occasions.
Simushi said because of her not being sexually satisfied she resorted to sleeping with clothes on, a situation he said was unbearable.
He said besides begging for sex, his wife would spend money on ‘useless' items, making it hard for the family to have three proper meals in a day.
"When I give Mulala K1, 000 for ration she says it is little, she demands for K2, 000 but I pay school fees and house rentals separately.
"She has been saying that I am not man enough in public and we differ because she denies me sex," he said.
Simushi said his wife would only have sex with him when he has money, stating that she would give excuses every day.
In defence, Mulala said that all was well in their marriage until last year when her husband refused to have sex with her because he had a girlfriend.
She said she denied him sex because he did the same when he had a girlfriend and that he would come home shaved on his private parts.
In passing judgment, Magistrate Nyendwa dismissed the claim for divorce because it was not a legal marriage as dowry was not paid.
She told Mulala to instead sue Simushi for child maintenance if she was not happy with the verdict.