06 Feb 2014 at 14:16hrs
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06 Feb 2014 at 14:08hrs
We want men as a natural God given social gift. We desire men to marry us. Marriage is an honorable way God sanctioned a man and woman to have sex. Men like Gumbura are bold and understand our plight. We seem to be missing it in our corner as women. There is no way to protect us from rape but to deal with each case as it comes. Human behaviour can not be controlled totally by law. Women should pray and refrain from abusing Pastors. No woman accepts a man without consent or force has been used.
06 Feb 2014 at 14:06hrs
women love God and respect Pastors please stop telling them your problems like marital ones in a human being there i something that believes humanity and it will never be a pastor when you tempt it it bites beware the ides of march leave pastors alone
06 Feb 2014 at 13:33hrs
Women are weak all round they lake confidence hence putting all their trust to individuals like Propherts,pastors,.To me they must know accept that problems are part of life.if married then respect your husband first before respecting stangers,as most women tend to respect pastors,propherts,bishops by doing so they will be exposing themselves to abuses,be satisfied by your husband.
06 Feb 2014 at 13:05hrs
Remember in the garden of eden let women who want protetion get it some women tempt this pastors how on eath can a woman be seen praying with a man in the mountain or being bathed by a pastor alone women avoiding be friending pastors they are humans they have feeling they have wives why not tell their wives your problems
06 Feb 2014 at 12:53hrs
Women must stop taking pastors like God,pls people must learn to read their own bibles not to fed by opportunists pastors who are eager to quench their sexual desires,what is Pastor?just human being like anybody else,women must stand up against these Gumburas of today,they are nothing but con artists&rapists
06 Feb 2014 at 11:42hrs
As long the dont want to read the bible they will remain victims to the Lucifarians.A true man of God keep the 10 commandments.the one who says"thou shall not have other gods be for me "is the one who said remember the sabbath day by keeping it holly.God doer not confuse ppl mupofita waMwari anodzidzisa sabata kwete kusarudza mirau inobvisa vanhu kunaMwari,all those guys out there claiming prosperity in the name of jesus blaa blaa watchout they are agents of the devil protecting their interests.i foresee them crushed like grain.tizai upombwe nokunamata zvifananidzo.nomatter wanamata zvnengei pasina sabata u a lost.cm bk to yor Lord before it is too late cz pakanyorwa kuti 10 commandmentr ukabvisa 1 panosara zero.lastly varume endai navakadzi venyu kuchurch mukadzi hafaniri kushanyira muporofita kana pastor ari oga.endai mose uye vanhu ngavadzidze kuzvinamatira
06 Feb 2014 at 11:14hrs
There are needs a watchdog of churches. The so called Man of God are now parading as God himself. They preach fear and some people surrender to them sexually out of fear. It is clear that the more desperate people become economically the more the seek such cunning Pastors. It is now time to call a spade a spade. The level of brainwash is same as mental slavery. One cant think anything other than giving everything they earn.
06 Feb 2014 at 09:02hrs
we need to go back to what used to happen in traditional churches, where married people were councelled only as a couple and not individually because being married means they are one being. As for personal councelling women had their own support group i.e. Imanyano at Methodist church and a similar grouping for men. These groups will be lead by a person of the same sex
06 Feb 2014 at 08:53hrs
As long as they praise the pastors more than God nothing will change. How did we end up here.. Maybe we re forsaken 4 turning against our culture.. Nxa bloody prophets!
06 Feb 2014 at 07:58hrs
The sentence that has been given to this Wolf is not enough what l know in Zim long back in jails there was hard labour to these criminals Bring it Back.Women should not be afraid once they feel unsecured with their Leaders live the church get advice report them to the police or make a trap. Churches are places of Praising God not doing all these Sexy things.Justice Minister Mnangwagwa should re-visit his constitution come with hard sentences that will bring closure to the Victims
06 Feb 2014 at 07:57hrs
They need to be protected by their knowledge of God, which they forsook in preference to the knowledge of man ie prophets and pastors they sing and know more about their pastors , than Christ who gave pastors and prophets to the church , hence they open emselves to abuse ....my people perish becaz of lack of knowledge ...not US dollars....they need common sense not copper cents to know & understand e word of God that can save them from wolves in sheep's skins
06 Feb 2014 at 07:37hrs
Its difficult to protect them because most of these wicked pastors/ prophets threaten them with all sorts of threats, however I think its every woman√¢‚Ç¨‚Ñ¢s responsibility to protect themselves. If a pastor approaches you (woman) saying he saw you in a vision, God told me to sleep with you blah blahhh, know that he is not a genuine pastor, leave that church instantly.
06 Feb 2014 at 07:27hrs
Are we Sure these women are speaking the trueth?
06 Feb 2014 at 07:25hrs