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Naked pictures exposed UK based Zimbabwean's illicit affair
08 May 2013 at 03:11hrs | Views
A married UK-based Zimbabwean has impregnated another woman in Zimbabwe. Now his marriage of 17 years is facing collapse.
Lobels Chavhunduka (40) is said to have gone back home and hooked up with one Cyria Chatiza-Cindy. When she fell pregnant she began sending naked pictures of herself to Lobels via Yahoo. Lobels' wife, Esther Mukonde then stumbled on the pictures and hell broke loose.
Esther confirmed the turmoil in the marriage: "Yes, my husband went to Zim in August last year for four weeks and met that prostitute who became pregnant straight away. So she has been sending (naked) pictures to my husband knowing that he is a married man," she said.
"Ndakazvibata in October kuti he was having an affair with this woman after ndaona some naked pictures which was saved on our PC. I then spoke to him (Lobels) akati akange amunyepera kuti haana mukadzi (wathi wanyemqambele amanga ukuthi kalamfazi)."
Esther confirmed that the pictures leaked after her husband downloaded them on their PC.
"My husband downloaded the pictures onto our computer and they are in love but he lies to me. I even have recent photos asingaite (angenziyo)."
She also added that she has tried by all means to stop Cindy from communicating with Lobels.
"She is sending the pictures maybe to impress him; I've told her to stop sending those pictures ndine vana mumwe wacho (ngilabantwana omunye wakhona) he is a teenager ndiye anototi mama huyai muone zviripa computer (nguye othi mama wozobona okuku computer)."
Esther said that their relationship has been shaky since the beginning of this affair.
"In Feb takatombosiyana coz of that murume wangu akauya akati sorry ndakangofarisa pandakaenda kuZim, ndaive ndakadhakwa handichazviite futi musikana akaenda and we have been married 17 years," said Esther. (In Feb sake sehlukana ngoba indoda yami yabuya yaxolisa ngathaba ngizengiye eZim, ngangidakiwe angisakweni futhi inkazana yahamba and we have been married for 17 years)
The pictures are sent through Yahoo and they are automatically downloaded on to the family's PC and Lobels is not very familiar with IT. At one point Esther is said to have confronted Cindy on the phone:
"Akatondituka zvinonyadzisira akati futi she doesn't want to know me after ndamuudza kuti the man is married. (Wangithuka okuyangisayo)
"Isusu tirikudanana (thina siyathandana) even though he is cheating on me I am not ready to lose him, tainetsana ndosaka takazomboenda (sasihluphani yikho sake salana) on separation but it was for a short time achibva anditeera achiti anondida and he doesn't want at lose me.
"Tirikuwirirana (siyawelelana) at the same time achibva anditeera achiti anondida (wasengilandela engitshela ukuthi uyangithanda) and he doesn't want to lose me. Tirikuwirirana (siyawelelana) at the same time achindivhara," Esther said.
Lobels visited Zimbabwe from August 6 to September 5 last year and that was his only visit since Esther invited him to UK in February 2004.
"She is ruining my marriage. She doesn't even work: she only goes to western union to collect money. He pays rentals and does everything for her ini ndichifa ne kuchengeta mhuri kuno (mina ngisifa ngokunakekela umndeni ngapha)," fumed Esther.
She further blasted Cindy as a woman of loose morals: "Anenge hure, ane mumwe mwana waakaitiswa nemurume wemunhu futi, asi murume wangu arikuti arikuzvinetsa hameno kuti sei achitumira mapic asi ndikamuti ngaamuustope anongoti I can't stop her." Esther even advised Cyria's mother to tell her daughter: (unjengomahotsha, ulomunye umntwana amenza lendoda yomuntu futhi, kodwa indoda yami ithi uyazihlupha asazi ukuthi uthumela kanjani imifanekiso, ngingathi umkami kame ukuthumela imifanekiso uthi kenelisi)
"Amai vemusikana uyu ndakavaudza kuti mwana wavo anodanana ne mureme wangu vakandituka vakati futi siyana neni pedzerana nemurume wako ikoko, usandifonere futi." (Umama kankazana ngamtshela ukuthi umntanakhe uthandana lomkami wangithuka)
Lobels, who is turning 40 this month failed to say much but only threatened this reporter.
"It's not about the comment; I don't know anything about it, ndezvekunyepa izvozvo. Ati muzviite izvozvo ndiani iyeye, but handisi kuda kuti muite story yacho, ndipe pekuti ndikunyorere kuti handisi kuda kuti muzviite," he said. (ngokwamanga lokho, Owathi likwenze ngubani, kodwa kangifuni libhale ngakho)
But his wife is one tormented soul; "I went through a lot and I am always stressed because of him and he even tried to sell our property in Zimbabwe behind my back achida kutengera munhu uyu imba asi ndakazozvibata, akati anga achazondiudza but vanga vakutosayinirana maagreement of sale nemumwe property developer weikoko. (efuna ukuthengela lumuntu indlu kodwa ngabakwazi, wathi ubezangitshela kodwa besebesayinelana ama agreement of sale lomunye uproperty developer)
"Ndatambura vahanzvadzi imba yakutoda kuparara he is planning to go to Zim in August. I think anoshandisa mushonga, anopa reasons ekuuya kwake kumusha but I'm sure kuuya kuhure iri," said Esther. (Sengihluphekile mfowethu umuzi usudilika)
It is reported that the two met in South Africa at the airport whilst Lobels was on transit on his way to Zimbabwe in August and Cindy is said to have been working for a duty free shop in SA.
She is believed to have resigned from work aiming to get pounds from Lobels via Western Union. Lobels could not comment on the pregnancy but his wife confirmed.
"Anoti inhumbu yake aitoti mwana akazvarwa anomuunza kuno kuti agare nevamwe vake, he wants to use me kuti ndichengete mwana iyeye ivo vachidanana zvavo (Uthi yisisu sakhe, wayesithi engaba lomntwana uyamletha ukuthi azohlala labanye abantwana bakhe). However, H-Metro contracted Cindy from her base in Highfield and she claimed to be the official second wife.
"She invaded our privacy and read the messages in my lover's yahoo account. Akainvader yahoo yemunhu, akatsvaga makudo mugomo akamawana. (Wa invader iyahoo yomuntu, wadinga indwangu entabeni wayithola)
"I am the second wife, I did not know that there was someone ini, ndakanyengwa ndikanyeperwa. Asi imbondiudza kuti chii chinoita kuti murume atsvage mumwe mukadzi iye akaroora," she added. (ngakhonjiswa ngaqanjelwa amanga. Kodwa akungitshele ukuthi yini enza indoda idinge omunye umfazi yona ithethe)
She also indicated that when she met Lobels he was in sober mind.
"He was sober when I met him not what she is saying kuti ainge akadhakwa, vanhu vanotaura kwavasina kuswera (ukuthi wayedakiwe, umuntu ekhula mayela ngalapho angatshonanga khona). I met him in UK long back and we started communicating on Facebook, ndikataura zvimwe anotozorwadziwa worse."
"Baba wake iye murume wedu uyu vaiva nebarika and he has paid something and he will finish it soon. Unoziva chii isusu vanhukadzi pane zvakawanda zvatinotadzira varume. Akamboita chihure, murume wake ndiye akatondinyenga," said Cindy.
Cindy further said :"Ndimaiguru wangu, ndivo vaHosi, I left my job because nhumbu iyoyi yaitondinetsa."
Asked on why she sends the pics to the hubby, Cindy said: "Zvakafanana nekuti iwewe une musikana wako, obva akusendera mapics unoti abva kupi, he is my love. He told me not to talk to amaiguru.
"Mdara ndiye akati anoda kuona dumbu ndosakandaisender mapicstures aya, ndezvevarume izvi hazvisi zvevakadzi, but are the photos naked? Ndakanyengwawo, ndikadawo sezvinongoitawo vakadzi vese.
"I am not destroying her marriage and he is coming in August after he failed in April, I told her that I am here to stay ndosaka akatsamwa. I think the problem with their marriage is haadi kuuya kumusha and she was ill-treating her husband sometime back," Cindy said.
The couple is blessed with three children and some are scared of using the computer because of the images they usually come across. Esther is a qualified nurse whilst her husband is a 'gambler' who lied to Cindy that he is a doctor.
H-Metro learnt it that Esther and Lobels tied the knot at the magistrates' court and the latter paid his lobola in full. Meanwhile Cindy is expecting the baby anytime from now.
Lobels Chavhunduka (40) is said to have gone back home and hooked up with one Cyria Chatiza-Cindy. When she fell pregnant she began sending naked pictures of herself to Lobels via Yahoo. Lobels' wife, Esther Mukonde then stumbled on the pictures and hell broke loose.
Esther confirmed the turmoil in the marriage: "Yes, my husband went to Zim in August last year for four weeks and met that prostitute who became pregnant straight away. So she has been sending (naked) pictures to my husband knowing that he is a married man," she said.
"Ndakazvibata in October kuti he was having an affair with this woman after ndaona some naked pictures which was saved on our PC. I then spoke to him (Lobels) akati akange amunyepera kuti haana mukadzi (wathi wanyemqambele amanga ukuthi kalamfazi)."
Esther confirmed that the pictures leaked after her husband downloaded them on their PC.
"My husband downloaded the pictures onto our computer and they are in love but he lies to me. I even have recent photos asingaite (angenziyo)."
She also added that she has tried by all means to stop Cindy from communicating with Lobels.
"She is sending the pictures maybe to impress him; I've told her to stop sending those pictures ndine vana mumwe wacho (ngilabantwana omunye wakhona) he is a teenager ndiye anototi mama huyai muone zviripa computer (nguye othi mama wozobona okuku computer)."
Esther said that their relationship has been shaky since the beginning of this affair.
"In Feb takatombosiyana coz of that murume wangu akauya akati sorry ndakangofarisa pandakaenda kuZim, ndaive ndakadhakwa handichazviite futi musikana akaenda and we have been married 17 years," said Esther. (In Feb sake sehlukana ngoba indoda yami yabuya yaxolisa ngathaba ngizengiye eZim, ngangidakiwe angisakweni futhi inkazana yahamba and we have been married for 17 years)
The pictures are sent through Yahoo and they are automatically downloaded on to the family's PC and Lobels is not very familiar with IT. At one point Esther is said to have confronted Cindy on the phone:
"Akatondituka zvinonyadzisira akati futi she doesn't want to know me after ndamuudza kuti the man is married. (Wangithuka okuyangisayo)
"Isusu tirikudanana (thina siyathandana) even though he is cheating on me I am not ready to lose him, tainetsana ndosaka takazomboenda (sasihluphani yikho sake salana) on separation but it was for a short time achibva anditeera achiti anondida and he doesn't want at lose me.
"Tirikuwirirana (siyawelelana) at the same time achibva anditeera achiti anondida (wasengilandela engitshela ukuthi uyangithanda) and he doesn't want to lose me. Tirikuwirirana (siyawelelana) at the same time achindivhara," Esther said.
Lobels visited Zimbabwe from August 6 to September 5 last year and that was his only visit since Esther invited him to UK in February 2004.
"She is ruining my marriage. She doesn't even work: she only goes to western union to collect money. He pays rentals and does everything for her ini ndichifa ne kuchengeta mhuri kuno (mina ngisifa ngokunakekela umndeni ngapha)," fumed Esther.
She further blasted Cindy as a woman of loose morals: "Anenge hure, ane mumwe mwana waakaitiswa nemurume wemunhu futi, asi murume wangu arikuti arikuzvinetsa hameno kuti sei achitumira mapic asi ndikamuti ngaamuustope anongoti I can't stop her." Esther even advised Cyria's mother to tell her daughter: (unjengomahotsha, ulomunye umntwana amenza lendoda yomuntu futhi, kodwa indoda yami ithi uyazihlupha asazi ukuthi uthumela kanjani imifanekiso, ngingathi umkami kame ukuthumela imifanekiso uthi kenelisi)
Lobels, who is turning 40 this month failed to say much but only threatened this reporter.
"It's not about the comment; I don't know anything about it, ndezvekunyepa izvozvo. Ati muzviite izvozvo ndiani iyeye, but handisi kuda kuti muite story yacho, ndipe pekuti ndikunyorere kuti handisi kuda kuti muzviite," he said. (ngokwamanga lokho, Owathi likwenze ngubani, kodwa kangifuni libhale ngakho)
But his wife is one tormented soul; "I went through a lot and I am always stressed because of him and he even tried to sell our property in Zimbabwe behind my back achida kutengera munhu uyu imba asi ndakazozvibata, akati anga achazondiudza but vanga vakutosayinirana maagreement of sale nemumwe property developer weikoko. (efuna ukuthengela lumuntu indlu kodwa ngabakwazi, wathi ubezangitshela kodwa besebesayinelana ama agreement of sale lomunye uproperty developer)
"Ndatambura vahanzvadzi imba yakutoda kuparara he is planning to go to Zim in August. I think anoshandisa mushonga, anopa reasons ekuuya kwake kumusha but I'm sure kuuya kuhure iri," said Esther. (Sengihluphekile mfowethu umuzi usudilika)
It is reported that the two met in South Africa at the airport whilst Lobels was on transit on his way to Zimbabwe in August and Cindy is said to have been working for a duty free shop in SA.
She is believed to have resigned from work aiming to get pounds from Lobels via Western Union. Lobels could not comment on the pregnancy but his wife confirmed.
"Anoti inhumbu yake aitoti mwana akazvarwa anomuunza kuno kuti agare nevamwe vake, he wants to use me kuti ndichengete mwana iyeye ivo vachidanana zvavo (Uthi yisisu sakhe, wayesithi engaba lomntwana uyamletha ukuthi azohlala labanye abantwana bakhe). However, H-Metro contracted Cindy from her base in Highfield and she claimed to be the official second wife.
"She invaded our privacy and read the messages in my lover's yahoo account. Akainvader yahoo yemunhu, akatsvaga makudo mugomo akamawana. (Wa invader iyahoo yomuntu, wadinga indwangu entabeni wayithola)
"I am the second wife, I did not know that there was someone ini, ndakanyengwa ndikanyeperwa. Asi imbondiudza kuti chii chinoita kuti murume atsvage mumwe mukadzi iye akaroora," she added. (ngakhonjiswa ngaqanjelwa amanga. Kodwa akungitshele ukuthi yini enza indoda idinge omunye umfazi yona ithethe)
She also indicated that when she met Lobels he was in sober mind.
"He was sober when I met him not what she is saying kuti ainge akadhakwa, vanhu vanotaura kwavasina kuswera (ukuthi wayedakiwe, umuntu ekhula mayela ngalapho angatshonanga khona). I met him in UK long back and we started communicating on Facebook, ndikataura zvimwe anotozorwadziwa worse."
"Baba wake iye murume wedu uyu vaiva nebarika and he has paid something and he will finish it soon. Unoziva chii isusu vanhukadzi pane zvakawanda zvatinotadzira varume. Akamboita chihure, murume wake ndiye akatondinyenga," said Cindy.
Cindy further said :"Ndimaiguru wangu, ndivo vaHosi, I left my job because nhumbu iyoyi yaitondinetsa."
Asked on why she sends the pics to the hubby, Cindy said: "Zvakafanana nekuti iwewe une musikana wako, obva akusendera mapics unoti abva kupi, he is my love. He told me not to talk to amaiguru.
"Mdara ndiye akati anoda kuona dumbu ndosakandaisender mapicstures aya, ndezvevarume izvi hazvisi zvevakadzi, but are the photos naked? Ndakanyengwawo, ndikadawo sezvinongoitawo vakadzi vese.
"I am not destroying her marriage and he is coming in August after he failed in April, I told her that I am here to stay ndosaka akatsamwa. I think the problem with their marriage is haadi kuuya kumusha and she was ill-treating her husband sometime back," Cindy said.
The couple is blessed with three children and some are scared of using the computer because of the images they usually come across. Esther is a qualified nurse whilst her husband is a 'gambler' who lied to Cindy that he is a doctor.
H-Metro learnt it that Esther and Lobels tied the knot at the magistrates' court and the latter paid his lobola in full. Meanwhile Cindy is expecting the baby anytime from now.
Source - H-Metro
