Man demands sex from stalks married ex-lover

BRIGHT Ndebele from Mzilikazi suburb in Bulawayo is said to be a bitter ex-lover and an "ex that can't be solved".

He is harassing his ex-girlfriend Mangara Dlamini, demanding that she returns to him despite the fact that she's now married to another man.

Dlamini said her life had been hell from the time she broke things off from Ndebele as he was now in the habit of coming to her place to verbally and physically harass her and at the same time demanding sex.

The devastated Dlamini last week approached the court seeking a restraining order against Ndebele after he vowed that she was going to pay heavily for getting married to another man.

He declared that he was not going to rest until her husband divorced her and be single like him.

"Bright Ndebele is my former boyfriend and we separated sometime in 2012. Whenever he sees me, he follows me to wherever I would be going. He is also in the habit of coming to my place to verbally and physically harass me.

"Sometimes he forces me to sleep with him yet he knows that I am now married.  He sees I'm no longer into him and he is trying all sorts of things just to get to me. On 4 March he assaulted me and I sustained a swollen eye".

She said she was now regretting introducing Ndebele into her life.

"He also phones my husband stating that he should divorce me so that I go back to him since he is not yet married.

My marriage is now on the brink of collapse because of his actions," added Dlamini.

In response, Ndebele however, said it was payback time for Dlamini after she unceremoniously dumped him for another man's arms.

"I am not opposed to what she said. The reason why I did this is because she is having an affair with another man despite the fact that she is married. Another issue is that she didn't tell me that she was no longer interested in me and all along I thought we were still together," said Ndebele.

Ndebele couldn't however, get away with his defence, after presiding magistrate Sheunesu Matova ordered him not to verbally or physically harass Dlamini or go to her place.