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'He should fix my private parts'
10 Oct 2013 at 07:51hrs | Views
Gaborone based businessman, Issah Batambuze
A Ugandan man has vehemently denied accusations leveled against him that he has abused a Motswana woman and disfigured her private parts.
Issah Batambuze, a 50- year-old Gaborone based businessman admitted to having a fling with Tebogo Motlhabani, 41 but vehemently refuted allegations that he pulled her clit*ris and left them 'long and hanging' as she has claimed.
Confronted with the claims Batambuze first denied sleeping with Motlhabani, a Security Guard at Oriental Plaza where his IT business is located.
Pressed for answers he however changed his statement and said "It was just a short relationship which never worked out because Motlhabani was an uncontrollable woman."
"Yes I had carnal knowledge of her but I never pulled anything as she alleges. When we met I told her that I have been in Botswana for the past 13 years and I had someone I was planning to marry.
"So when I realised that she was becoming a big problem to keep as a girlfriend I got rid of her," said Batambuze
Meanwhile Motlhabani came out all guns blazing this week claiming that the she was contemplating a lawsuit against the Ugandan if he does not make an effort to assist her financially to fix her clit*ris through surgery.
"He abused me for the six months that we were together.
"He said that he wanted me to have long v*ginal lips like the Tswapong and Kalanga women so he used to lubricate me with Vaseline and 'milk' me every time before sex.
"I agreed to it because he had promised to marry me," said the mother of two.
Narrating intimate details of their sex lives Motlhabani told of how the man allegedly laid her on her back and lengthened her clitoris.
Then one day she looked at herself and got the shock of her life when she found out her 'lips' resembled a bat's ears hanging out of her private parts.
She also went on to accuse Batambuze of refusing to use a condom every time they had sex.
"He also did not like using condoms. Sometimes he would put on a condom when the lights were on but take it off as soon as the lights went off.
"I ended up giving up on protection because despite everything I was convinced he was my husband to be.
"That's why I want to sue him for a breach of promise too," she said.
"But in the meantime all I want from him is for him to come back and help me repair my private parts. No man wants me anymore because of this bat like thing hanging out of me. It is even uncomfortable for me to walk and live a normal life."
Batambuze made it clear that he wanted to be left alone to enjoy his new marriage.
He tied the knot to another woman over the Independence holidays.
"She wanted P3, 000 from me and I made it clear to her that I don't owe her anything. She must leave me alone," He said
Issah Batambuze, a 50- year-old Gaborone based businessman admitted to having a fling with Tebogo Motlhabani, 41 but vehemently refuted allegations that he pulled her clit*ris and left them 'long and hanging' as she has claimed.
Confronted with the claims Batambuze first denied sleeping with Motlhabani, a Security Guard at Oriental Plaza where his IT business is located.
Pressed for answers he however changed his statement and said "It was just a short relationship which never worked out because Motlhabani was an uncontrollable woman."
"Yes I had carnal knowledge of her but I never pulled anything as she alleges. When we met I told her that I have been in Botswana for the past 13 years and I had someone I was planning to marry.
"So when I realised that she was becoming a big problem to keep as a girlfriend I got rid of her," said Batambuze
Meanwhile Motlhabani came out all guns blazing this week claiming that the she was contemplating a lawsuit against the Ugandan if he does not make an effort to assist her financially to fix her clit*ris through surgery.
"He abused me for the six months that we were together.
"He said that he wanted me to have long v*ginal lips like the Tswapong and Kalanga women so he used to lubricate me with Vaseline and 'milk' me every time before sex.
"I agreed to it because he had promised to marry me," said the mother of two.
Narrating intimate details of their sex lives Motlhabani told of how the man allegedly laid her on her back and lengthened her clitoris.
Then one day she looked at herself and got the shock of her life when she found out her 'lips' resembled a bat's ears hanging out of her private parts.
She also went on to accuse Batambuze of refusing to use a condom every time they had sex.
"He also did not like using condoms. Sometimes he would put on a condom when the lights were on but take it off as soon as the lights went off.
"I ended up giving up on protection because despite everything I was convinced he was my husband to be.
"That's why I want to sue him for a breach of promise too," she said.
"But in the meantime all I want from him is for him to come back and help me repair my private parts. No man wants me anymore because of this bat like thing hanging out of me. It is even uncomfortable for me to walk and live a normal life."
Batambuze made it clear that he wanted to be left alone to enjoy his new marriage.
He tied the knot to another woman over the Independence holidays.
"She wanted P3, 000 from me and I made it clear to her that I don't owe her anything. She must leave me alone," He said
Source - thevoicebw
